Im a little sick of feeling obligated to patch up things that I dont think need patching up. I like to imagine that the human condition is one of understanding and progress, and that we are not afraid of honest communication. Unfortunately, Im completely wrong. I clam up when I get intimidated. I also tend to put people aside when I get busy.
In most cases, friends are understanding, and have enough going on in their own lives that they dont care, but recently, I found out that I had really upset someone. He told me his new years resolution was to stop calling me, which totally floored me. I had no idea he wasnt speaking to me for a reason, I just figured he was busy.
So I apologized (my strongest skill), and agreed to meet him for coffee. I really do want things to be alright, I just wish it wasnt so dramatic.
I dont really feel like I did anything wrong. But I guess I'm just a heartless bitch, huh?