I get this feeling. Which is paranoia. But maybe not. That because I'm dating someone, all his friends will blame me because he doesn't do stuff with them as much. Like they'll think I'm telling him he can't do stuff or requiring him to spend this much time with me. And I'm not doing that. I'm not. But I think people will think I am. And that I do. But I don't. As big mouthed and obnoxious as I can be, I don't run people. I don't tell people to do anything really. Except my roommate. I tell him to take out the trash and clean the catbox. (I do the dishes and clean the bathroom. It all works out.) He also has a history of being with people who boss him I think. I'm not so sure about that really, but I think people perceived that he was being bossed. But I'm not the Boss.
See unfortunately, I'm seriously in love. I've got it bad. I'm entirely at the mercy of my warm squishy fuzzy feelings. I'm all like "You wanna come over?" and he's all like "Yeah totally" and I'm all like "That's so awesome. I'll make popcorn and we can watch Mr. Show." and he's all like "Awesome" and I'm all like "I have some work to do" and he's all like "Me too" so I go pick him up when we're done working and go to my house and have popcorn and watch Mr. Show. And it is totally and completely Awesome. And that's all. Well that's not ALL, but the rest is none o yer beeswax.
Posted by jlp716 at October 27, 2004 12:37 PMO my gosh, i just totally threw up all over myself! it was all pink colored. you know, like love.
Posted by: Mike at October 27, 2004 01:10 PMWell, I DIDN'T throw up all over myself, and speaking of one of those people who consider myself the guy's friend (although admittedly we don't hang all that much), I totally understand the change in focus. Heck, I'd be seriously concerned if he WASN'T spending an inordinate amount of time in your company at this point in your relationship.
These things happen; the pendulum has swung further to your side, but eventually a new state of equilibrium will be achieved. That's the way it works, so what's to worry about?
Enjoy the popcorn...
Posted by: KING COMTE I at October 27, 2004 03:10 PMWhy do you hate me?
Posted by: benlau at October 27, 2004 04:40 PMOh Ben... Where to begin...
Posted by: JtotheP at October 27, 2004 06:52 PMI think its fucking rad when my friends are in love. Go love!
Posted by: sonya at October 29, 2004 01:06 PMJtotheP, you emasculating bitch.
(Which, roughly translated, means "I'm pleased that you have found each other. I could not have wished for a better match for both of you. I hope you're very happy together.")